Friday, October 24, 2014

Love and Aloha

Today I read a newsletter written by a Unity friend of mine who is the minister of the Unity of Little Rock in Arkansas.  James is very connected to Hawaii and I love it that he sometimes includes Aloha in his Sunday services and uses a lot of their language.  Hawaii is my dream vacation and one of these days, I am going to get there for a visit.  Not for the commercialism, but for the spirituality of the land and the people.

In the Hawaiian language, they use the term Aloha, which means affection, peace, compassion, and mercy.  Most people only know it as a greeting to say hello or good-bye.  What a beautiful way to greet someone than with a word that basically means love!

As I did more research on the word Aloha, I found that there is an even deeper meaning.  Pilahi Paki, a Hawaiian philosopher, came up with a code that was derived from the acronym of Aloha.  It is as follows:  “A, Akahai, kindness, to be expressed with tenderness; L, Lôkahi, unity, to be expressed with harmony; O, `Olu`olu, agreeable, to be expressed with pleasantness; H, Ha`aha`a, humility, to be expressed with modesty; and A, Ahonui, patience, to be expressed with perseverance.”  Kahuna David Bray interpreted this code as, "Come forward, be in unity and harmony with your real self, God, and mankind. Be honest, truthful, patient, kind to all life forms, and humble."  He said that to the Elders, Aloha meant ‘God in us.’

Also in the newsletter, James mentioned that someone questioned how much we use the word ‘love’ and thought we used it too frivolously as in saying “I love my car,” “I love my puppy,” and so on.  I’ve seen this question before in some of the things I’ve read, and some people were very adamant that we shouldn’t use it except for the people we really love.  My thought is that we don’t use it enough and we’re seeing the results in our personal lives as well as in our world around us.   We seem to be seeing more hate than anything, especially if we believe everything we see and hear in the media and from some religious leaders and politicians. 

I’m a huge believer in telling everyone, humans and animals alike, that I love them.  I sign my letters with ‘love’ or ‘love and laughter.’  I tell my family, relatives, and friends all the time that I love them, and I expect nothing in return.  If you’ve read my columns or heard me speak, you know one of my main topics is unconditional love for all regardless of color, race, religion, culture, sexual preference, or whatever.  This is what all the great spiritual masters taught!  A friend once even affectionately called me “the Love Minister.” 

Am I perfect at it?  Heck no!  I struggle like anyone to love those who make it hard for us to love them for whatever reasons.  During those times, I try to see them as an innocent baby or child knowing that, as an adult, they are the way they are because of what they’ve been taught and the things they’ve experienced in life.  Everyone has a story and not everyone’s story has been easy. 

I love to love!  Sometimes, when I go for a walk, I’ll tell everything I see that I love it!  “I love you, trees!”  “I love you, sky!”  “I love you, dragonfly!”  “I love you, mailbox!”  It’s also important to love ourselves and to be able to look at that reflection in the mirror and say “I love you!”  When I’m out in public, I’ll sometimes shoot people Spirit wads of love!  Is all this silly?  Maybe.   But it’s a way of learning to be so filled with love for everyone and everything around us.  The more we say it, the more it fills us!  We have to empty that cup of love in order for more love to pour in! 

A great verse from the Bible states, "Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."

Love really is the answer!  Call it God, Life, Universe, or whatever you want to call it.  Love is a powerful force and with it, we can change the world!

Wishing you and yours much Aloha!


Published in the Cookeville Herald Citizen newspaper October 24, 2014.


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