Friday, July 18, 2014

We Are the World!

“There comes a time when we heed a certain call; When the world must come together as one; There are people dying; And it's time to lend a hand to life; The greatest gift of all.  We can't go on pretending day by day; That someone, somewhere will soon make a change; We all are a part of God's great big family; And the truth, you know, Love is all we need.  We are the world, we are the children; We are the ones who make a brighter day; So let's start giving; There's a choice we're making; We're saving our own lives; It's true we'll make a better day; Just you and me.  Send them your heart so they'll know that someone cares; And their lives will be stronger and free; As God has shown us by turning stone to bread; So we all must lend a helping hand.  When you're down and out, there seems no hope at all; But if you just believe there's no way we can fall; Well...well...well; Let's realize that a change can only come; When we stand together as one.”

The above are lyrics to “We Are the World (USA for Africa)” which were written by Lionel Richie and Michael Jackson, and sung by over 45 well-known musicians.  The proceeds were used to feed starving people in Africa.  But the song could be used just as much today because the words speak to the hearts of so many

There is so much going on in the world right now.  So much violence, hate, bigotry, and fighting.  If you watch, read, or listen to any of the medias, you will hear mostly all negative news.  It is very rare that the media will communicate any of the good that is occurring, and my friends, there is so much good occurring all over the world! 

It’s hard not to wonder what on earth is going on with people now-a-days.  The hate and vitriol that is being spewed forth from religious leaders, politicians, and others is just mind-boggling!  But what you’re not hearing is that there are people all over the world who are coming together in harmony to help each other and to be of service to humanity. 

People are awakening!  We know that we are brothers and sisters on this great planet of ours! We look for what we have in common rather than focusing on any perceived differences. We know that when people work to destroy others, we’re only destroying ourselves.  But when we work together in love, peace, and harmony, we build a strong foundation where we can lift each other up. 

There are many protests happening all over our country and in the world, and it’s the violent, horrifying ones that are making the news.  Not too long ago, there was a protest in Turkey that made world history though you probably didn’t hear about it.  One man began his protest by just standing.  Standing for hours; not moving.  Others began to join him.  Soon it became a movement in various parts of the world where people would protest by just standing.  No violence.  By peaceful protesting, they made an impact like no other.

Back in 1986, there was an event I participated in called “Hands Across America.”  Almost seven million people held hands in a human chain that crossed the continental United States from New York to California.  Celebrities, politicians, people from all races, religions, cultures, and genders came together for the greater good.  Money raised was donated to help fight hunger and homelessness.  The feeling of knowing we were a part of something so great and wonderful was very exciting!  And no one was harmed!

There are many of us in the world who are the peacekeepers, the light workers, those who know that if we are to move forward, we have got to come together as one.  We need to start standing up for what’s right, good, loving, and kind, and do so with compassion in our hearts.  The challenge is that we’re not the complainers, nor do we attack others in public, so our message is not being heard like those who only know hatred.  But we can make a difference.  One person and one cause at a time.

Published in the Cookeville Herald Citizen newspaper July 18, 2014.


Friday, July 11, 2014

United We Stand, Divided We Fall

“‘For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’  Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink?  When did we see you a stranger and invited you in, or needing clothes and clothe you?  When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’  The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.” (Matthew 25:35-40)

I don’t know how much clearer Jesus and other writers in the Bible could have made it.  And yet, we’re still not getting it.  What Jesus is saying is that he appears as each being on this planet and when we treat others bad, then we’re treating Jesus the same. 

It makes me really sad when I see so many various religious leaders and politicians doing so much harm to so many people all in the name of God.  We were commanded to love each other.  Jesus even made it a new commandment over all other commandments when he said, “A new command I give you:  Love one another.  As I have loved you, so you must love one another.  By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13: 34-35)  Could he have made it any clearer?   Yet people instead pick verses out of the Bible that propagate hate and separation over Jesus’ greatest command of all.

It’s so easy to see people as less than or to make them outcasts or demonize them because that gives us an excuse not to love them.  We do it to the gays, undocumented immigrants, Muslims, the poor, homeless, sick, uninsured, anyone who doesn’t believe the way we do, and countless others.  We buy into what the religious and political leaders say because we think they know more than we do, that they’re smarter, or that they must have some special ties to God that we don’t have.  And yet in 1 John 4:7-8, it says, “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God.  Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.  Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” 

I have a picture on Facebook that shows the face of Jesus in the Universe looking down on the earth, a tear gently falling down his cheek, and with the caption, “What part of loving one another do you not understand?”

We are to learn to love others….unconditionally.  That doesn’t mean we condone the behavior when they harm others, and yet what’s ironic is that we’re condoning this very behavior from the leaders who are doing so much harm with their words and actions!  We still have to be accountable for our actions.  But it’s sad that so many leaders are teaching such hate, bigotry, and ignorance and so many blindly believe whatever they say.

Jesus and all the other great spiritual masters taught unconditional love and that we should be coming together in peace and harmony.  Yet there are so many who are working really hard to separate us, including some news stations and talk show hosts.  They teach us to focus on our differences rather than what we have in common.  They denigrate individuals or groups of people in order to keep those separations in place so that they can get the masses to agree with their own personal beliefs. 

Please don’t misunderstand.  There are many wonderful religious leaders and politicians who do get it, who really care, and know that if we want peace, we have to first learn to love.  They’re trying, but the media only focuses on the negative so we don’t hear about them. 

Buddha said “Radiate boundless love towards the entire world above, below, and across unhindered without ill will, without enmity.”  The Dalai Lama stated, “When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace.”  And even Mother Teresa stated, “Spread love everywhere you go.  Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.”

We have our work cut out for us, friends.  There are many of us who are trying to focus on love and what’s good in the world.  We’re getting there.  As Aesop stated so well, “United we stand.  Divided we fall.”  Namaste`

Printed in the Cookeville Herald Citizen July 11, 2014.

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Churches ~ Dealing with Emergency Situations

Imagine you’re sitting at church listening to your minister.  Suddenly, you smell what hints to be smoke, but you think it has to be your imagination so you put it out of your mind.  A minute later, you notice the smell is becoming stronger.  You look around and see that others are becoming aware that something is wrong and yet no one seems to be taking action.  You realize with horror that there must be a fire in the church.

Change the scenario.  Again, you’re in church.  Outside there is a major thunderstorm.  The wind is howling and there is torrential rain ramming the side of the building.  Hail starts to ping off the outside walls.  It is then that you hear a faint sound…the sound of the tornado siren in town.  Again, everyone looks around uncomfortably, but no one is moving.

New scenario.  You’re in church and everyone’s attention is on the minister.  All of a sudden, you hear the back door bang open.  When you turn around, you are horrified to see a deranged man with an AK47 pointed at the congregants.  No one moves.

Three situations.  All requiring some form of emergency action.  Would your church know what to do to save lives?  Does your church even have some type of emergency plan in place?  Do you have designated members appointed who would know what to do and could take charge in any emergency that may arise?  You’d be surprised how many churches, large and small, do not. 

Many think the chances of something happening at their church, particularly when services are in session, are extremely rare.  Or they may believe that God will take care of them so they don’t have to worry.  Yet it has happened in numerous churches throughout history.   It only takes one time for people to be seriously injured and/or killed.  I don’t think any church wants to have that on their conscious.

It is extremely important to have an Emergency Operations Plan (EOP) in place regardless of what you think the chances are of having an emergency situation actually occur in your church.  The time you take to put one in place will be well worth the effort if an emergency should happen. 

The first thing you can do is to get a copy of the state or local risk assessment from your local emergency management agency.  This assessment would contain information of potential threats and hazards in your community that could also affect churches.  Depending on the part of the country you live in, you could be susceptible to fires, tornadoes, earthquakes, floods, hurricanes, violence, and so on. 

There isn’t room in this article to go over every single detail, but I would like to give some basics and will also note a very good resource at the end to help you put together a very effective EOP. 

1.  OSHA requires the posting of building evacuation plans, fire evacuation maps, and easily seen emergency exit signs above all doors in order to meet the building code requirements.

2.   Make sure that you have sufficient fire extinguishers available and have numerous people trained to use them.  They should be hung in easily locatable areas with a red Fire Extinguisher sign above or next to it.  Also make sure you have adequate and reliable smoke alarms in various rooms.

3.    Have a detailed evacuation plan in case you need to evacuate everyone from the building.  All exits should be clear at all times; all doors should open outwards.

4.    Appoint a safety team of members who attend regularly and train them how to get people out quickly and as safely as possible. There should be at least several people who will be in charge in the event of an emergency, though one person should take the lead.  This person would make the final decisions so that there is no confusion among the team in a panic situation.  Members of the safety team should also be trained in communicating with outside emergency personnel.  We may think that in an emergency situation, everyone would act in an orderly manner, but when panic sets in, all bets are off.  Having someone in an authority position can help keep people calm and thinking clearly.

5.   Appoint “Buddies” who would be in charge of helping the disabled and the elderly.  There should be a plan as to whether they should physically try to carry someone to safety either by carrying the individual themselves or using a chair as a carrying tool.  If you have babies and small children in separate rooms, you will need assigned teams to immediately go to those rooms to get the children out and then get them to their parents in the safe areas. 

6.    You should have a safe area designated in the event of a tornado or extremely high winds.  In the event of a tornado, do not stay in the open sanctuary or any open room.  Get people into the smallest areas, away from doors, windows, and as close to structured walls as possible.  Check with your town’s fire department to verify what the siren means.  Some set them off for severe thunderstorm warnings or because an actual tornado has been sighted in the area. 

7.     In the event of a fire or even a hint of a fire, evacuate everyone to a safe area away from the building and keep everyone together.  Do not take chances that it’s something minor.  Many buildings can burn quickly, so it’s not worth the risk of waiting.  Immediately call 9/11.  Members of the safety team should immediately get fire extinguishers and check the building to try to find the source.  If it is a highly active fire, do not try to put out the fire yourself as they can get out of hand very quickly.  Do not move cars unless you need to make room for emergency vehicles. 

8.     Churches should be equipped with emergency lights that come on in the event the electric should go out, and they should be placed in various rooms for adequate lighting.  Do not assume that street lights from the outside will be enough light.  In a storm, they may also go out.

9.     In the event of any evacuation, and if it’s safe to do so, your EOP team should quickly ‘sweep’ all rooms to make sure everyone has gone to the designated areas.  Yell out so people can hear you.  Make sure that everyone is accounted for.

10. A team should be trained for first aid. Have at least a couple of good sized first aid kits easily accessible in various parts of the building.  You might also want to look into getting an automated external defibrillator in case of heart attacks.  The Cookeville Mended Hearts has a program where they will donate defibrillators to churches who have a certain consistent number of attendees.  There are also other organizations who offer grants for these defibrillators. 

11.  Supply your local fire and police departments with reliable contact names and phone numbers in case of emergencies.  You can also give them your building schematics, emergency plans, and the location of your utility shut off valves, which they will keep on file.

General evacuations for fire and weather are basically standard in that the procedures can pretty much be followed step-by-step.  In the event of a gunman entering your church with the threat to cause harm, procedures can only be followed so far.  Hopefully, this will never happen in your church, but as we see in the news, it does happen.  In 2008, two people were killed and seven wounded in Knoxville at a Unitarian Church.  In 2012, six people were killed and four injured during a shooting in Wisconsin at a Sikh Temple. In 2013, a minister was shot and killed during the service in at Atlanta Tabernacle.  Just Google church shootings and you will see how much more common these tragedies are occurring.

There is no profile that exists for shooters; however, you can be aware that there may be signs or indicators. Whether the signs are minimal or obvious, many people go into denial thinking that it couldn’t actually be happening; therefore, they don’t say anything.  Your emergency team should be trained to skip the denial and act immediately.  You should also have a plan to safely alert everyone in the building.

In the event of someone coming into your church with a gun with the intention to cause harm, this is when you should apply the Run/Hide/Fight rules:

Run:  If you able to get your people out safely, do so immediately and quietly, and get them as far away from the building as possible.  Leave personal belongings behind.  Know your escape routes as there is always a possibility that one or more could be blocked. 

Hide:  Have safe rooms that have thick walls and doors.  Lock and barricade the doors, turn out the lights, cover the windows, and stay along a wall closest to the exit but out of the view of the hallway.  Silence all electronic devices and remain silent.  If you can do so safely, communicate to emergency personnel your location.  Remain in place until given the all clear by identifiable law enforcement.

Fight:  This is definitely a very last resort if you are unable to run or hide.  If in the vicinity of the shooter, the main thing is to try to keep everyone calm.  Your minister or someone from your emergency team should be trained on how to try to talk someone down without escalating the situation.  If this is not possible, then adults in immediate danger should try to overtake the shooter by using aggressive force and/or using items in their area such as chairs and other heavy objects.  There is a risk in fighting back so it is a judgment call based on the individual situations.  Again this is a last resort.

There is a lot more information available that I obviously cannot include here.  An excellent source to help you develop your Emergency Operations Plan is found at   It also includes many emergency plan details.  I would highly recommend your church printing this off and then following through in developing your own EOP and training your emergency team.   This information can be found at:

When it comes to church safety, the saying “it’s better to be safe than sorry” is a very good motto to keep in mind.  Don’t wait.  Lives could depend on it.  Remember…it takes only one time to cause serious injuries or deaths.  Keep your members safe!

Published in the Putman County Visions Magazine, July 2014 issue.

Friday, June 27, 2014

Celebrities ~ You Find What You’re Looking For

Recently, I stopped at a bookstore and checked out their books on sale.  There, I found a gem of a book titled "The Dude and the Zen Master” by actor Jeff Bridges and Zen teacher Bernie Glassman.  It is filled with such wonderful spiritual wisdom and knowledge!  They talk about everything from going with the flow, finding enlightenment right where you are, finding peace within, and so much more.  I was also surprised to learn that Jeff’s mother brought the kids up on ‘The Daily Word,’ which is a Unity publication!

Celebrities tend to get a bad rap in the media.  You only hear about the ones who are acting up or dealing with really heavy life issues.  You rarely, if ever, hear about the celebrities who are basically normal everyday people who are also doing a lot of good in the world.  Most people have an idea that all celebrities drink a lot, use drugs, sleep around, are divorced, and party all the time.  No so.  I say come to small town USA and see how many people we have who do the exact same things.  The only difference is that the celebrities end up in the press. 

A few years out of high school, I decided to pursue my dream of becoming an actress and moved to Hollywood, California.  I didn’t know anyone, didn’t have a place to live, and didn’t have a job once I got there.  I had a dream and I was going to go after that dream.  Naïve?  Maybe.  But only those who pursue their dreams have a chance of seeing them come true.

Before I left, numerous people, including the minister of my church, told me that if I went to Hollywood to become an actress, it was my instant ticket to hell.  They told me that Hollywood was evil as well as everyone who lived there, especially if they worked in the entertainment business.  But I had better faith in humanity and believed something better. What I found is that there are so many wonderful, kind-hearted, and loving people in and out of the business!  I met so many amazing people in the industry, many who are/were big names that you would easily recognize.  I found the same when I moved to Nashville years later to continue pursuing my dream.

What I learned is that you find what you’re looking for.  Yes, if I had bought into the belief that everyone there was evil, then that’s exactly what I would have found.  But I believed in the goodness of people and those are the people I met and got to know.

I also found a church that I attended regularly and met quite a few celebrities there.  Since then and to this day, I’ve learned that there are countless celebrities who are on a serious spiritual path.  Many of them are using their celebrity and money to make a wonderful difference in the world. 

When we hear of troubled celebrities, especially younger ones, instead of judging and condemning them, how about if we pray for them instead?  How about if we hold them in loving consciousness that they’ll soon find their way so that they can be the healthy, vibrant people they were meant to be? 

We love watching our celebrities in the movies, TV, and sports, and yet so many people are quick to try to tear them down.  Celebrities are doing a job even though those jobs may be outside our being able to relate to them.  Yet they provide a lot of joy and happiness to so many.  I’ve been blessed to see that side of the celebrity life and now I stand up for them whenever I hear someone trying to demonize them.

I would like to leave you with a couple of my favorite quotes from two of my favorite people. 

Jim Carrey said, "Like many of you, I was concerned about going out into the world and doing something bigger than myself, until someone smarter than myself made me realize that there is nothing bigger than myself.  My soul is not contained within the limits of my body; my body is contained within the limitlessness of my soul.”

And Martin Sheen state, “We wind up in cells of our own making when we’re not generous, loving, compassionate, and forgiving.  Without love, we build dungeons in our hearts and fill them with our perceived enemies.  We believe they deserve to be there for the harm they caused us, but by imprisoning them we’re destroying our own spirits.  When our dungeons are overflowing with these prisoners we refuse to set free, we become slaves to our self-righteousness, our anger, resentments, and self-loathing, which we let multiply until we wind up imprisoned on our own death row.” 

Published in the Cookeville Herald Citizen June 27, 2014.

Friday, June 13, 2014

An Attitude of Gratitude

Recently, I took a dear friend of mine to the Nashville airport.  On the way there, traffic came to a standstill and then crawled, bumper to bumper, for several miles.  Soon we found to our horror that there was a tragic accident on the eastbound lanes.  Several white sheets lay on the ground; we could only assume the worst.  Our hearts ached for all those involved.  After dropping my friend off at the airport, I hung around town for a couple of hours hoping the traffic would clear up by the time I headed back.  I was wrong.  It took me an hour to drive 8.5 miles.  Yes, I could have been really angry and upset that I had to wait in barely moving traffic for so long.  But when I weighed this and the fact that someone died, someone lost their loved ones, and people’s lives were drastically changed forever, I knew what I was going through was nothing.  No comparison.  I was alive and well.  I could feel thankful that the worst I had to do was to be delayed in getting home.

Another incident stands out in my mind that really brought the lesson home to me.  Several years ago, I lived on Bon Air Mountain between Sparta and Crossville and I worked in Sparta.  One day, my boss asked me to stay an extra half hour.  After I left, I stopped to get my car washed.  On the way through town, I hit every red light.  I was tired and just wanted to get home.  Except half-way up the mountain, the traffic was stopped.  An officer was turning traffic around saying there was a really bad accident further up the road.  It took me over an hour to get home, which normally should have taken me about five more minutes.  Later, I found out that an infant was killed and the accident occurred where I would have turned at about the exact same moment I would have driven through there.  If I had left work at the usual time, I could have either been involved in the accident or seen it happen.

This really taught me that delays can be a good thing.  How many of us get irate because we are delayed for whatever reasons?  Long lines in stores, longer than normal traffic drives, and other unexpected things that keep us from getting to where we’re going based on our own timelines?  Those delays could be keeping us from harm. 

Another great lesson I learned is to always keep things in perspective.  It could always be worse.  I think of all the people who are going through the most unbearable experiences and it’s only by fate that it’s not me or someone I love.  Therefore, what I’m going through is perfectly tolerable, though slightly inconveniencing.  I can handle the inconveniences when I consider the alternatives.

There are so many people in the world who are struggling with so many life challenges.  When I see them and what they’re going through, I count my blessings.  When I see someone who is homeless, I’m thankful I have a roof over my head.  When I see someone who is starving, I’m thankful I have food to eat.  When I see someone who has health issues, I’m thankful I have my health.  I look at people in various parts of the world who have absolutely nothing, and I’m grateful I live in a country that has so much.  If you think about it, I’m sure you can come up with your own.  If you can’t find anything to be grateful for, just start with the basics and build from there.  Can you walk, talk, see, hear, do you have a roof over your head, a warm bed to sleep in, food to eat, people who love you…?  Being in a state of gratitude attracts more to be grateful for.  Being thankful for everything you have can bring a peaceful state of mind.  When we’re at peace, regardless of everything going on around us, we find that we can feel happier, healthier, and can face each new day with grace.  We’ll also find whatever we’re looking for in life and then our perspective manifests as our reality. 

I leave you with these two quotes… Willie Nelson said, “When I started counting my blessings, my whole world turned around.”   And Rabbi Harold Kushner stated, “Can you see the holiness in those things you take for granted–a paved road or a washing machine? If you concentrate on finding what is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul.”   

Published in the Cookeville Herald Citizen newspaper June 13, 2014.

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Nature's Spirituality

The other day, I was taking a long walk down a country road on a gorgeous sunny day.  I love being among nature, listening to the birds singing their melodies, and inhaling her fragrant perfumes. 

As I was walking, I looked down to see a beautiful butterfly that had apparently been hit by a car.  It was laying on the road, its wings barely moving in the slight wind, probably hanging on between life and death.  I carefully picked it up and gently laid it on a flowering bush while wishing it well on its journey into the next life.  The Bible says that even a sparrow cannot fall to the ground without God knowing about it.  I think that would include this small delicate butterfly.

There is so much in Mother Nature for us to see and yet we take so much of it for granted.  Have you ever stopped to marvel at the majesty of the trees?  The marvelous flowers with their splendid colors and perfumes?  The green grasses that embrace the earth with its splendor?  The critters that run and play in and out of the brush and trees?  The magnificent birds as they soar on the winds of the Universe’s breath?  The glorious sun that watches over us and gives energy to all of life?  The stars that glow and twinkle in the night sky?  It’s all so awe-inspiring!

Being among nature can bring so much peace and calmness when life gets to be chaotic.  Mother Earth literally grounds us in her energy.  That’s one reason I love Native American Spirituality so much.  Indians are very much attached to the earth and know that she is a living, breathing being.   

Back in the early 70’s, I saw the movie “Billy Jack” about a half Navajo Indian who lives on a reservation and protects the Indians and school students on the rez.  It was because of this movie that I fell in love with the Native people, their beliefs, and their culture.  

Later after graduating from high school, I thought I might like to be a missionary to the Indians.  My church sponsored student missionaries to reservations in British Columbia to live with and minister to them.  During my week of training in Vancouver, I was appalled to hear the missionaries calling the Indian people savages and thinking of them as almost less than human!  I decided then and there I didn’t want anything to do with this form of prejudice and that I would live with the Indians and accept them just as they were.  The very large family I lived with and I became very close and we keep in touch to this day.  The missionary staff psychologist said I was the only student who did not have culture shock.  I learned a great lesson in how important it is to love and accept people just as they are with no judgments.

I found the American Indians to be a beautiful, extraordinary people.  They believe in a Great Spirit that is in everyone and everything.  Their traditions and ceremonies are also wonderful.  I’ve learned so much from them and will always be grateful to everything they have given me.

Native Americans believe in the sacredness of all life.  When we realize our connectedness to nature and each other, we realize that what affects one affects all.  If everyone could only realize how much a part of each other we really are, then maybe, just maybe we could know peace.   Black Elk said, "The first peace, which is the most important, is that which comes within the souls of people when they realize their relationship, their oneness with the universe and all its powers, and when they realize that at the center of the universe dwells the Great Spirit, and that this center is really everywhere, it is within each of us." 

There is so much good to be learned from other religions, beliefs, and spiritual masters, and there’s no need to feel threatened by any differences.  Director Gene Roddenberry (creator of “Star Trek”) stated it well when he said, “If man is to survive, he will have learned to take a delight in the essential differences between men and between cultures. He will learn that differences in ideas and attitudes are a delight, part of life's exciting variety, not something to fear.” 

Let’s learn to embrace the goodness of each other’s religions and beliefs without feeling threatened.  Let’s stop fighting and arguing over who is right or wrong and trying to force our beliefs on everyone else.  And let us learn from the Indians’ example and strive to live in peace and harmony with all people and all things on this beautiful Mother Earth.

Published in the Cookeville Herald Citizen newspaper June 6, 2014.

Friday, May 16, 2014

Special Angels

For the past several years, I have been substituting in the Putnam County Schools.  My favorite classes are Special Education for what some call ‘special needs’ children.  Of course, I don’t like the term special needs; therefore, I prefer to call them Special Angels, or SpAngels for short, because they really are Special Angels on earth.  At first I didn’t think I could do it as I had never been around SpAngels before.  But right from the get-go when I accepted a position in a Special Ed class, I fell in love. 

Before I got to know so many of these children, my attitude was that something was “wrong” with them because they had a physical and/or mental disability.  I couldn’t have been more…well…wrong.  Now I prefer to say that these children have a very special uniqueness.  Many, if not all, are very intelligent, have their own personalities, and will surprise you when least expected.  They just may not be able to communicate like the rest of us.

My belief is that these children came through the way they were meant to come through.  I know that may be a hard perspective for some and that’s okay.  I believe that these souls chose to have this experience on earth, not only for their own soul’s benefit, but for the benefit of all those to whom they will come in contact.  They came to teach us love, compassion, kindness, and patience.  Just like some of us have different skin colors, hair, and eyes, these children came through appearing different, yet just like the rest of us.  It’s unbelievable how much they have taught me and I so appreciate everything they have given me.  They’ve made me a better human being just for knowing them.

Before I had the honor of knowing these very special children, whenever I saw them in public, I would avoid eye contact or looking at them other than a quick glance.  I think most people do this, not because they’re being rude, but because they wouldn’t know what to say.  We’re not sure how to behave around them or their parents/guardians.  Now I know.  This past holiday season while walking into a store, I encountered a mother with her SpAngel in a wheelchair on her way out after shopping.  Her child was challenged both mentally and physically and was holding a new toy.  I went right up to the child, said a cheerful hello, and spoke to him for a moment just like I would any child even though he couldn’t respond other than his gorgeous smile.  I also acknowledged the mother and told her that her son was beautiful.  The look of gratitude on the mother’s face that someone would even notice her son was priceless and made it well worthwhile.  They both blessed me with their presence.

Many times, we encounter SpAngels of all ages with their parent(s) or caretaker in public places such as a store or restaurant.  Sometimes the SpAngel’s behavior may not be what we think it should be.  They may be talking and we can’t understand them or they may be making noises.  Sometimes, they’re not pleasant to look at because they don’t look like the “norm.”  It’s easy to sit in judgment and some may even think they shouldn’t be out in public.  But how about if we instead look at them through the eyes of love?  How about if we see them the way God/Universe/Spirit sees them?  How about if we respond to them just like we would anyone?  Look them in the eyes and say a cheerful hello.  Find something to say to compliment them.  Have compassion.  They want to be acknowledged and loved just like the rest of us.

Friends, we all come to earth in the bodies we have for whatever reasons.  No matter what we look like or how we act, we are so loved beyond measure just as we are.  If we could only see through the façade of the outer illusions of physicality and see each others’ souls, we would see just how much alike we really are.  The light within all of us comes from the exact same Source.  When we connect to the light of the souls of those around us, we feel so much love for our fellow beings and we realize our oneness.

Eckhart Tolle stated, “You are here to enable the divine purpose of the universe to unfold. That is how important you are!”  This includes all of us.  Thank you, SpAngels, for blessing my life!  I love you and appreciate you!

Published in the Cookeville Herald Citizen newspaper May 16, 2014.